Everything must go!
Being an expat/immigrant has been my bread and butter, since the very beginning. At first because of my father’s job in the army stationed here today, gone tomorrow, and later on, out of personal preference, self-extraditing myself the hell out of Colombia.
The places I called home have had names like Monteria, Santigo de Chile, McClean,Treviso, Bogotá, London… and in about a month, we will be leaving the city of Buenos Aires where we have lived for the last 3 years: its name added to the list.
Sentimentalism is not high in the priority list and I actually believe a change of cultures is fundamental every so many years as to avoid stagnation and to keep an open mind: it keeps on your toes, protects you from getting too comfortable and buying way too many things you don’t need, you learn about a different way to see life and you even learn a new language in some cases.
Even tho I came and went in this Buenos Aires city, I have to say that of all the cities I have lived in, this is the one where I have felt the most welcome and at ease.
Welcome because this is one of the few places where as a Colombian you are not singled out as a threat or an undesirable. People actually like Colombians here (Bolivians take the heat here…) and the immigration laws are for once skewed in our favor. Other foreigners get away with never having to register or pay taxes as long as they come in and out of the country (by river, from BsAs, 1 hour to the neighbor Uruguay) once every 3 months
At ease, well , being “at ease” seems to me it the very core of the Argentine lifestyle and even tho that can also get on your nerves when absolutely nothing technical actually works, and Porteños don’t actually keep their word or appointments, there will be plenty of things I will miss about Buenos Aires.
The slow pace of life is one of them: Here and in contrast with other mayor urban centers of the world, it is quite possible to have a social life where you take the time to relax and spend time with people. Venues are more than plentiful (I still haven’t seen even half of BsAs saddly), of good quality and open everyday until very late. Life is kind of cheap (but not as cheap as it used to see this example as one of many of the rampant inflation going on right now) and working and making money are not the top priorities.
Another thing I like is that there are more expats everywhere ( i don’t mean tourists) : Argentines are super friendly and open but making real friendships with them is hard because in their very traditional lifestyle they made all the friends they needed back in high school. To top it off a lot of them flee BsAs on the weekends to be with their families having “asados” (BBQ) in the suburbs.
Fortunately there are thousands of other foreigners around coming and going like waves of locust. Zones like Palermo and Recoleta are crawling with us non-Argentines and there is always someone new in town to meet and get to know and someone else who is leaving. Other expats are my favorite kind of people by far and they fall into 2 kinds:
You have your white people (Americans, English, Australians etc…), most of them have taken a semi-dangerous chance (usually for 6 months to 1 year) and they quit their jobs or work remotely or take a year to come and study Spanish or work for very little money. They move to a strange place with a strange language and weird costumes and when asked they will probably tell you they were bored with their life back home.
Then you have your non-white people, and they usually come to study and/or to find a job in a particular type of industry that flourishes in the region, mainly advertising, photography or cooking. Many of my Colombian friends have come here in these conditions. They work the waitressing/cooking helper jobs. They like it a lot here but most end up leaving because most of them can’t find better work.
Expats/Inmigrants are always open to hang out, to go out, to meet strangers, a lot of times they have a new place or activity in town that you didn’t know about, and they are generally open to at least consider new things.
The world would be a completely different place is everyone the world were required to spend at least 1 year as a foreigner (I don’t mean as a tourist).
For white people It’s my understanding that despite having all the advantages of a ‘white person passport’ very few actually use them. For the other type of foreigner, the rest of us, it’s the destination countries that do everything possible to keep us out.
In Colombia there a saying that applies “My god gives bread to toothless men“.
So we are leaving Buenos Aires and everything must go. The boxes are being packed, the unnecessaries given or thrown away. I have to return in a few months while the Dutch process my application to live there, but when i come back it will be for short while.
All in all it’s been fun and if everything else fails, we always have Buenos Aires to come back to.






Ann 12:43 pm on July 7, 2010 Permalink
good luck moving again! too bad we’ll *just* miss you by a couple days in holland.
Tam 1:21 pm on July 7, 2010 Permalink
That’s right, we do